AWL Update
Adoptions
with Love Update: So its been 2wks since I've heard from AWL & the
"dog" question. Last week when I didn't hear from Nancy I decided to
call the EEC myself. I called AWL as well & left a msg for Nancy to
call me as I had been waiting a week to hear from her. Since the
application opening is only effective for 45 days I was pressed for
time. I spoke w/Miguel from EEC & he said he never heard of a "pet
restriction" for agency adoptions but only for DCF (which was the first
rejection).
Since he wasn't sure, he left a msg for his associate.
She called me today. She thought we were going thru the home study
process but I explained to her that we were not & that we were going
thru just the application process right now. She also told me there
was NOT a "pet restriction" for agencies but transferred me to another
gentleman who happens to license AWL. I explained to him that I was not
really placing a complaint as much as trying to get info on this "pet
restriction." I explained to him that we were on a timeline, I've
waited 2wks to hear back from AWL & I told him how our consultation
went. He also indicated that there wasn't this "pet restriction" but
that an agency can make there own policies. Hmmm. He also said that if
I did not get a good "vibe" from the consultation that this agency
might not be the right one. As much as I agree w/that, Nancy made us
feel like we were losers who can't afford a baby. Who is she to judge
someone she doesn't know or even take the time to get to know? Who is
she to judge when we were agreeable to the application process that puts
you thru the ringer..finger printing, background checks, home studies
& FINANCIAL BACKGROUND INVESTIGATION! She would clearly see we are
MORE than capable of affording children.
Anywayssss....The gentleman
told me that if any agency tells us about certain policies that we have
a right to see the policy. He also suggested that we consult w/a few
agencies....which we already doing. Now I know why.
So I hang up
w/him & call AWL b/c I still hadn't heard back from the msg I left
last week. The person who called me back was NOT the person we
consulted with...AMY called us back. I said, "Oh, I was under the
impression that Nancy was to call me back since I consulted w/her." So
Amy tells me that Nancy had explained the "story" to her & that they
do in follow the guidelines of DCF. That means NO DOGS.
She said, "If you had a rottweiler I would never place a baby w/you." HOW RUDE!
That statement was judgemental & VERY insensitive, lacked tact. I was disgusted.
I explained to her that "our whole consultation revolved around money
which it shouldn't have & felt I was being blown off. But since you
using the guidelines of DCF I see no point in wasting my time w/AWL any
longer."
Does that not sound fishy or what? I asked Nancy when we
first made contact by phone how long she had worked there & she told
me 23 yrs. How does a person work for 23 yrs, in a small agency &
not know if they adopt kids to people w/german shepherds or not?
Seriously? They totally blew us off. UNPROFESSIONAL & I will be
calling the EEC back & making a complaint this time.
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